世上只有妈妈好。。。
My mum is one hell of a woman that drives me nuts. I don't know why, but every time she tells me something or asks me to do something, I get really pissed. She is on a 1 week leave now and she is driving me nuts, but she doesn't know about it. She is such a lost woman, the ultra wishy-washy type and sometimes it drives me nuts. She was planning on going overseas for a short vacation as she had some unhappiness at work. So Genting over the weekends was an option. I told her if she wanted me to go, she had to decide quickly because I wanted to find a job. But still, she left it hanging. I called up Grassland, "the coach company to Genting", and found out that it was fully booked till monday. She then said something like no need to check with the other companies, and 这么赶的， 不要去了。Then she thought about asking our uncle to bring us around JB and that is also not decided.Today, she found out that an ex-colleague of hers had passed away and wanted to attend his Songka. So she asked me to drive her there. Just b4 we leave the house, she asks me to buy 4D for her later. I don't know why, it's just buying 4D and SIngapore Pools was just downstairs, but I get really irritated. I was thinking: "Can't you buy it yourself?" I told her OK.
She wanted me to drive her to Kim Tien area near SGH to meet her friends first. She said her friends would be waiting for her at the busstop. As I was driving, she suddenly remarked, "4D 店六点就关了。” I just got more irritated. I know she was just trying to remind me, but it just pissed me off. I put on a black face and she started nagging abt if 不方便， then no need to buy. That irritated me even more. Would I not buy it for you?
Then we came to the meeting place but her friends were not there. She then called her friends to ask where they were. We went on until around near Chinatown then found a U-turn and made a U turn. Her friend told her they were around the Sikh temple, where we went pass earlier but didn't see them. We went back there again, but didn't see them there. What happenened was they didn't wait at the side of the road, but was under one of the blocks buying 4D. WTF! My mum told me to wait in the middle of a T-junction for her friends to come out. WTF!! I decided to turn into the housing blocks bec there was a car behind me. Then, finally I saw them walk out of Singapore Pools. They came into the car and the first thing they said was: "哇， 儿子很瘦hor, 跟他老豆一样。"Stupid bitches. I hate it when ppl say that. Freaking irritating. As if I want to be so skinny. And you asked my mum to meet at the bus stop and yet you were buying 4D when we arrived. WTF!!! was that supposed to mean?
And I didn't know what my mum was thinking. After they boarded the car, my mum told them to guide me to the place. My mum said: "hahaha... 你要跟他讲走哪里。 他刚刚pass driving." I didn't know if she was trying to save face for me in case I went the wrong way or she simply didn't know my driving status. HELLO, MUM, I passed 2 years ago, remember.
I don't hate my mum. She is really good to me and my sis. But I just can't help but get irritated but her antics. Always so dependent on us. Always so wishy-washy. Always being too nice in the wrong way that not only does she not get in the good books of people, but actually annoy some. I can't help but get angry and irritated with her, but I feel guilty after realising how I treat her. She is a real nice lady but I guess she is always too nice, and tries too hard to please everybody even though she doesn't willingly want to please that person. I hope she doesn't get pushed around that much. Gotta learn to assert herself more. She's always succumbing herself to the tyranny of others and gets herself angry after that. She has thoughts of retiring, but I worry for her. What will become of her when she doesn't have a job to occupy her time? She doesn't have that many close friends and she isn't the active type of person. She hates activities with crowds and facing strangers. She doesn't like taking public transport. How??? Any suggestions anyone? Am I just the typical nagging hater, or am I a mother hater?
No mother and bitches were harmed in the writting of this blog.
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